Happiness in Marriage. A touching Story

She's been sitting in the car for over one hour because the traffic was at a permanent standstill. A lot of things was going on in her head and then she noticed this man and woman coming from the other side of the road....
" He was holding her hand while walking down the crowded street and telling her something so funny that makes her smile happily like no one is looking at her. He kissed her passionately and she held him very close to her. The ring on their hands shows they were an old couple but still happily in love. There was a priceless smile of happiness and contentment on her face when he gave her a helmet to put on her head before sitting on the back seat of his dilapidated motorcycle. She doesn't seem to be bothered by the state of his bike as long as they are both together. She rested her head on his back holding him firmly while he starts his old bike leaving a polluted thick flame behind"
The scene reminded her of what she's going through and she burst out crying loudly behind the wheels of her brand new expensive JEEP forgetting people were looking at her. A rude bus conductor came shouting at her to either keep moving or leave the road for other motorists. That was when she realized that the traffic has been cleared and she was actually the only one blocking the road.
Here is the story of the sad wife of a poor rich man. Her husband is the CEO of many companies both home and abroad. His wife and kids never lack any material things that money can buy. The kids go to expensive private schools while the wife has access to any amount of cash. A huge mansion on a private island with a private bridge to connect and disconnect from the world. A wide range of latest automobiles to match the standard of the house.
Many women pray for a husband like hers. A rich husband that will give them beautiful life freed from wants and needs.
But behind every smile of MRS KAMUZU is an untold story of agonies and pains. T's really hard for anyone to believe what she's going through painfully alone. The fear of being judged and condemned keeps her quiet and continue to suffer in pain. Those who are very close to her thinks she's asking for too much from a good man who is doing everything possible to put a permanent smile on her face. Some say her patience is not enough. She has done everything to talk to her man, but nothing seems to change.
She applied every good advice she gets from a marriage counselor but it all ended in vain. The pastor told her to keep praying and fasting to save her home. She's dying painfully in silence while no one understands the reason why she cries. She lives in a big mansion but still feels lonely because she's always alone. She was seeing as a happily married woman in public but inside, she lives like a single woman. Her husband gives her everything money can buy, but deprives her of everything money cannot buy in life. She begs for attention all the time and love making becomes a favor that happens once in a blue moon. She complains so much and becomes a nag. The more money he has, the more he becomes unavailable to his family at home. The kids hardly spend time with him because of his multiple business schedules. 80% of his time is spent at work and 20% at home. The 20% at home is divided into 3, he spends 10%sleeping and 7% on his phones and computers and the remaining 3% is the only free time he has for his family.
Many women are miserable in their marriage with no hope in sight. They sleep and wake up in pain every day. Some men are not sensitive to their women's pain while some believe the only way to make a woman happy is by providing for her financial needs alone. Of course, money is a big part of marriage, but no matter how much money you give a woman if she has to beg or fight for your attention it's never enough. Some women just need a listening hear. A man that will listen to them when they want to talk. A man that will make them feel loved. A man that will spend quality time at home with his family regardless of how much he makes. Most women are miserable in their marriage but choose to keep quiet and suffer in silence. Some men think marriage is a big favor and then treats their wives like trash. They think a woman's value has dropped because she already has many kids and then treats her like a person without a choice. Some women are the reason for their marriage problems in life. They think the best type of husbands is the big boys with cash. Some women said they will rather cry sadly inside a BENTLEY rather than laughing happily on top of a bike. Perhaps those with that type of mentality has never experienced real emotional matrimonial stress that hurts and kills more painfully than a gun. WHEN YOU REMOVE HAPPINESS FROM MARRIAGE IT COMES A BONDAGE.
- Akin Al-Ameen